Well, this is a debatable topic already since generation we are informed and groomed to be a nice human being and not indulging into physical intimacy and head paining relationships. Howeve,90% of the people rather students come into relationships goes through ups and downs and hardly few of them get through it and that’s where true love is being differentiated from  just an attraction and in this process out of the two who actually loved goes through   a real time struggle. That particular person actually have to maintain a balance between his all other lives May it be academic emotional, social or else, and that’s what makes you stronger and the bravest person.

No one from our parent’s generation considers hook-ups as a good thing rather, they wholeheartedly believe in love and then making love to each other but not just physical intimacy without emotions. However, our 19’s generation have been divided into different tiers there are some who love this culture then comes the other breed who are neutral in their approaches neither apposing nor following then come the third category who are downright opposer of  this trend. Thus, everyone have their reasons for the favour they have chosen for themselves. As I have already mentioned it’s a debatable topic rather than a topic to be briefed about.

However, going by physical intimacy without that bond of love in between never proved right, neither it has further life. It finishes right after it starts. There is no feeling of belongingness and neither of commitments. That’s actually shows youth weakness as well as stark reality that today’s generation can’t be as disciplined and determined as some of the great people used to be. Discipline here should not be confused with just being well behaved rather it also means well mannered human being with utmost humanity as a prior thing. Being a Hollywood lover I myself have watched movies which started as a hook-up show but later converted into a love story. Where both the partners  understood the meaning of love and started caring for their significant other rather than only hungry for sex. After an intensive research regarding the similar stories it has been concluded that no doubt these hook-ups give a heavenly pleasure, but they also snatch your mental peace away. When one partner emotionally connects with the other partner. He or she has to go through the real trauma.

I would request my dear readers to believe in love, care, affection and belongingness rather making you a sex maniac. Personality should create a bond rather than physicality. You exclude  ‘sex’ out  you will find not many individuals have much to offer apart from the love and pestering. Thus, believe in humanity follow the religion of humanism rather than sexism. To add on, this inclination for sex affects your future somewhere or other. You can’t be as much real to your future wife or husband as your past  keeps walking along all the while. You hardly find peace and being unabsorbed by some of your guilt’s.

In nutshell, direct your energies into productive tasks. Create something beautiful out of you. Have standards for having fun. If you want to have fun,  choose some hobbies. There is so much in this world to have fun with, So many activities to involve in, So many movies to watch, so many games to play and enjoy. However, don’t make physical intimacy as a fun activity. Physicality is related to supreme connection of two souls thus, this should always be pious.

 

 

Carrying a desire of being fit and fine but due to our own mood swings and for some not so necessary purposes we tend to ignore the important things though, exercing daily may not be an important thing for many people. As different people possess different shapes and size but here the attention is to be shifted on those who  have  an ultimate  need to work out daily as their body types demand it.

Some people remain dejected from their own self for having being granted a body type which gains weight quickly. However instead of taking that in a negative way people should get an inspiration to workout daily for the same.

Out of many there are some of the excuses which children, adults and juvenile make.

BODY PAIN:                                    

When it comes to workout no doubt it leaves a person completely exhausted. It other words it leads to the formation of lactic acid in once muscles which further cause severe pain. However, the only way to let that pain out is to continue the ritual of exercising daily but due to laziness some people leave in between and thus exercise doesn’t impact their body much.

WORK PRESSURE OR THE PRESSURE OF STUDIES:

Life is always busy. However, what matters is which business you like or which is not. When one become fully inspired to include health in their way then there comes an inner power to get up and start workout.

EXCUSE OF BEING INDISPOSED:

There are levels of sickness if a person is sick to a great level then giving a excuse is apt. however, tiny and small sickness does not matter to that extant. In fact, a light workout rejuvenates your body and makes you feel energetic. Also, it cures you much faster.

EXCUSE OF NOT HAVING APPROPRIATE MATERIAL:

People some time excuse of not having appropriate material required to workout. Such as, proper shoes, track suits and other materials. Leaving all this to a side people should realize that life is much  better and beautiful on the other side of small unworthy excuse.

 

some people  always wonder how few people remains so healthy and fit always? how they can resist the temptation for the mouth watering and delicious food? how they start and spend their day be as energetic as at the start of the day. dear friends these habits are acquired  with persistent  and continuous efforts being put in by these such highly healthy people. The following are some of the points which makes some people highly healthy.

Will:

Will is an utmost important factor in deciding the shape , health status of any person. As the famous saying goes “what we think we become” so healthy people always carry an intense desire as well as will to stay healthy as they are.

Now some people may can oppose the point by stating that everyone carries the same will to be healthy but, you should not forget that  their is a slim line difference in having a will to be healthy and having a desire to be healthy. Desire in itself  does not serve the purpose rather it should also be supported by persistent and diligent  effort to start carrying the goal of being healthy  hand in hand with other modus operandi.

Quick Stealing of Time for your Health Goals:

The above point is also one of a crucial matter to put focus into. In case you are an aspiring health freak. Friends, life is a running train it will always be busy so the excuse of being busy prevents you to be healthy then this is the silliest fact on which one hangs on. Every person should steal a few minutes to do some exercise which fit to his present status and convenient as per his place available and vicinity.

Compare your present body types with past once:

Its always said that we should not compare our body shape and size with other we should always carry a positive state of mind. However, comparing your past self with your present self is neither immoral nor unconscionable rather it makes you aware regarding your progress in terms of health as well as weight. In case you have gained a bit of weight in your present self than what you had in your past self. Then, comes a time to think about and analyze rationally the question like

What was the change in eating habits which let to such change?

What were the behaviour and daily tendencies which led that to happen?

What changes has to be made in the behaviours so that the past self can be retrieved back?

Clothes speak without the tongue:

Your clothes can better tell you your health status then any other person. Infect, they are the first indicators to show that a transformation has occurred in your body. So whenever you find such transformation has taken place start to take the measures in advance so that the health will not het deteriorated more.

 

 

 

 

 

Escape

Hey!You are a solaceYou are in abusy scheduleYou are among friendsYou are in a piece of poemYou are in that cognizant nightYou are among those giggling photosYou are among those long conected talesYou are in that morning scheduleYou are in those absorbing moviesYou are in these instagram feedsYou are among those popped up facebook notificationsYou are in all thrilling novelsYou are in that slow steady walk to a nearest community parkYou are in those motivational quotesYou make me to live the moment more and leave the past behindBe so powerfull to engulf me allBecause you make me see things beyond then what has already been doneBe with me alwaysAm loving you moreA lot lot more….

 

Had there been a legal backing for boyfriend girlfriend relationships like marriages then thier would have been too less heart breaks
Indeed!!!
As it’s been so comman for people to breakup from one and patch up with other just by giving the reason that they don’t feel for that person anymore for whom they were mad somewhere in the past and gave all their precious time, nihgts, promises and so much more.

Opinions should matter….

Don’t spoil someone else time

If you can’t afford spoiling yours.

Just be free from the past people!!

Be that little beautiful butterfly

Explore the circumstances,

Confront with the conditions,

Gather Guts,

Because you are the bestest thing that happened to you rest all is secondary

You are the primary objective to the whole you

Don’t you make an effort to touch the periphery of dark dinzy arena

Enter into the glittering lights

Optimistic smell,courageous building, free air

Just bee happyyyyy✌✌🎉🎉

Being casual about any task in life is the next step to distruction..

It can be in anything either in acedemics or in relationships

Make sure what exactly you are trying to exract out from being casual without the indulgence and doing harm to the other body connected with the same state of affair.

If you can’t do it now you can never do it in the future.