Meet my comfy and cheerful space
With lot of glittering grateful grace
Stars of their respective states
With distinguished speciality traits

One shares all the chattery jokes
To cheer the passive folks

Another comes who
Gives you a pretty woo
Reacts in ages
Thus counted among sages

Then comes this naughty sub group
From the tiny main group
They ignite the conversations
With full preparations
And, target a sweet chin
Then proceed with thick and thin

One gives the best available advice
But that actually doesn’t suffice

When I go almost haywire
Stuck in the dingy and dark tiers
I call my best benevolent fits
They resolve all the gloomy spirits

One is the excellent study mate
‌Another is an overall opposite trait
‌one feels like, the second home
Another prepares you, the best for prome

You chaps have , all my heart
I am there for every momental tart
Apologies for my unintentional deeds
A friend in need is the friend indeed

—-Sofia Malik

 

1) The things which are important remain always in our subconscious brains. However,we Find ways to escape them over and over again,such as, A random scroll on your Instagram feed,or switching over to a thought which has no connection with the important task you thought to procrastinate.

In order to stop wasting time give yourself a simple thought.Start talking to yourself because everyone knows himself better than anyone else in this world.You know your potential,your weakness, your all the habits.So, start step by step.
Ask  yourself why you are escaping the thought of doing something productive? Is it too difficult that if you start you won’t be able to continue?

In such case start searching for the people who will help you out with the difficulty further,and a very crucial point to consider is ego.It should not interfere in your learnings put that to a side and be humble enough to accept the fact that you can’t make head and tails turn for the topic or a piece of academic stuff and so, taking help from someone is the bestest decision you can make.

2) Another question which can trigger your brain is that, the productive stuff will take       hell lot of time?
So for  this excuse of yours, I would suggest you to believe in the process, anything productive takes time, you distracted, you come to path , you loose upon some other things, you feel frustrated for things not happening  the way you wanted, despite all that,  you gain resilience to start again.
Thus, all of this takes time, at the end you have to trust the process and stop making your distractions wide enough to engulf you into them and leaving the mission aside.

3) If you aren’t feeling like doing the task  but you actually want to do it. then start with the simplest activity required to step ahead in the task. For instance, If you want to take bath but you are not feeling like, then try getting up from the bed not with the motive of taking bath but just to change the mood, after getting up you will realise, its better brushing your teeth and thus, you will be accustomed to water, in order to proceed further, start deciding the clothes you want to wear after bath, take them out from your wardrobe, little by little head on to accomplish the task and feel greatful from within that you are actually doing it. Finally, you will be in a position to do it. This was just an example, however every work follows the same principle. Now you know why people become all rounder they actually follow the same principle in the very normal day to day task.
At the end, things which aren’t of our likings take time but we can actually accomplish them too if we are willing to.
Everything depends on ones willpower that should be the strongest amongst all,  little by little we start to gain perseverance, and patience to reach the destination.

In all exuberance

In unbothered pranks

Satiety in cold bath tub

I lost self love

 

Asking for acceptance

With rude ,cruel world

Hanging on the people

In unusual relations

I lost self love

 

Adieu to less sugarated tea

And low carbs milk

To be okay with less veggies

And marginally less fruit plump

I lost self love

 

Engrossed in readings

In unreciprocated pleadings

In unchanted discussions

I lost self love

 

With the desire to meet

And share some greets

With the hope of good times

Without the Amazon primes

I lost self love

 

With the uncertainty of love

And more dark bluff

Giving what all it takes

Not getting the favoured efforts

I lost self love

 

In some lovable scene

And the  environment so serene

In those cozy hugs

I lost self love

 

With the expectation of obvious times

In a wood or under a pine

With a promise to care a heart

Without getting well regards

I lost self love

 

Little by little knowing my  worth

Using my loopholes, to raise the trends

Then came a point

And the whole game changed

—by sofia Malik

Let’s meet with a peculiar personality

Looks beautiful,attractive but not at all fatty

Has developed an apprehension with several foods

No guy, no baby, but calls always dude

Her clothes are trendy,classic and simple

T-shirts, Lowers are all in ample

Her heart really has a charming character

Brain hardly gets distracted and endured in a lively gesture.

Almonds, sweets, healthy foods she goes for

Ohh! I forgot to mention  the cravings for  fruits is always more.

Got my wits
And all routine chits
All those time tables
But not dark lables

Gone are the days
When we used to be kid
Slaying here and there
With bottles lid

Transformation from school
To the college confluence
From that home feels france
To the unknown rental trance

With Many new friends
And a handful of Jems
Life goes dragging
Or follows pompous trends

Flooding to the shades
And solving all trades
In those emotional threats
Without exchange prospects

If I talk to you more
Am not a women but a whore
If I do on face flirt
Am a full on slut!!

If I love cooking
My mind is a creamy pudding
If am that intellectual breed
Then what cast and creed?

I pity you for..
Always being wrong.
I am the Queen..
Who can win thrones

My man should keep me
Like a precious delight
Coz I stand always
By his side

I gather all guts
To profess his victory
I forgo my choices
To keep him happy

We both are players
Let’s have a fair play
Spread respect and purity
Don’t do more delay

___Sofia Malik

So here I am sharing the journey with depression of a girl I know,by close quarters. She actually couldn’t even realize that eventually she is  being trapped under  this unseen disorder.
She sometimes did not get sleep for the whole night and her body feels tired, and her  limbs choke,her eyes bagged her to sleep but her brain overpowers everything and thus, ends up spending sleepless nights. Though not sleeping till late night was a little common after starting graduation however, back then it was always to have fun with her pg mates and for studies in case there is an exam next morning.But,since past one year sleepless nights followed without any particular reason she herself wants to sleep but she couldn’t!. So it may be because of one of the incident she went through after her first year of college life. It’s regarding  her liking a boy and eventually they met several times exchanged kisses but he actually did not love her.He just wanted a prolonged hookup where they don’t give consideration to anybody’s emotions and just indulge to fullfill their sexual needs. Being in love with the same boy she did not agree to his proposal, though deep down somewhere in her heart she so so wanted him to love her the way she loved him. However, things not always go as you wish and he was not actually in her destiny so God parted their ways quite early.
Further, she does not  have any hatred for him, neither any grudges rather she respects the fact that he did not betray her  by making fake relations and later putting all the blames on herself  for being fool in her approaches.
But , before they finally separated they patched up quite so many times and each time she allowed him back in her life with a preconceived notion as well as hope that he also loves her no matter how little but he does. That’s actually was her biggest mistake may be.

However, she never let these feelings overpower her she found some of the ways to escape the very unpleasant situations of his remembrance. Home was one of the healing ground Althrough this depression phase because it’s vibes and people around make it a little easy to divert the mental thoughts. Some of the movies too helped her in gathering the courage to gain her previous situation,reading was also in the list of some of the productive task while she used to remember him. No doubt Depression kills you from the very inside,removes all the glitter but still it makes you to discover life from  an another angle.Makes you more conscious and strong. I request my dear readers to find positive ways of escaping the anguish and pain you are going through.

So that’s it, She still remembers him every day, peeps to some of his photos often and makes herself convinced that she can’t do anything regarding this. The only option with her is to forget this person no matter how much long it is taking her to get over the things but she has to
That’s the only way we live life and focus on our other crucial roles.
She do not know weather they will  meet in future just to have some words together sharing about their present lives etc.
At the end, she always want to wish him good luck for all his future endeavours. She wants him to be happy wherever he is. Also, she wants to apologize for every word she must have uttered when they were parting their ways just in frustration or in stark anger. Any thing which is said to him and made him ponder upon for long and made him anxious in any way needs an apology. She wants him to forget them if he can.
And  she will be fine  little by little but she will be fine anyways. That’s where the perfect enlightenment follows and the purest form of love.🙂

Easy hacks for a health conscious sweet thooth person
Ingridients:-
1)Take a cup of milk
2)An egg
3)Two to four slice of brown or white bread
4)A tea spoon sugar
5)Butter or desi ghee
6) Fry pan and a
Process:-
Mix egg,milk and sugar in a bowl
Stirr it gently and make the mixture
Meanwhile put fry pan on the burning stove and spread ghee or butter on the whole pan
Later, dip the bread slice in the mixture for a while but not for a long time so that the slice won’t get too wet and drops off before being fried on the pan. Finaly, take the dipped slice gentaly out from the mixture and put that on the well warm fry pan.
Roast the slice from the other side too and thus, you are ready to eat. Have your healty desert ready in few minutes.

1) hey gloomy human we can understand the type of emotional trauma you must be going through however do remember “Nothing last forever not even you!” so does your feelings for the one who did not loved you back

2) Pledge with yourself that you will become the love you never received.

3) Stop counting on your flaws, it may be you never had one .It’s just that the other person lost all his attraction towards you.

4)Promise youlself to keep your life flexible in the comming lifespan. Accept the fact that rejections are farely normal we all should be ready for it in advance.

5) Don’t always keep feeling sad for not happening things in the order you dreamt of.Life isn’t this,it’s even more to it ,its enagmatic, inimical, uncertain, and unexpected but still Hella beautiful 💫.

6) Whenever you remember your lost love keep a phrase in handy to repeat again and again within your mind. Such as “Everything will be okey” ,
“No matter what am strong”,
“More self love baby” ,
“I am me more more me”

7) Cry out hard if you feel like crying.Crying isn’t the sign of being
weak, infact it’s the mechanism where you Vomit out all the hurt, pain and anguish in the form of tears.
There are people who don’t actually get the tears and die small deaths day by day.
Thus, it’s always better to destroy the shit rather being destroyed by it.

8) Don’t ever think of taking the revenge that’s actually kills your time and again you are giving worth to the other person more despite investing the same time on your self improvement.

9)Just because you are hurt and want someone’s campanianship so you are deciding to come again in to an another relationship to escape  the pain. This doesn’t actually serve the purpose rather engage with some other only when you are ready to leave everything behind and won’t be at all affected if the previous partner came in to your life and you are too very sure that you won’t allow them again to snatch your peace.

10)Keep yourself busy in productive tasks fill your day with such a routine that once you hit the bed you finally be sleeping within few minutes. This prevents late night
Feelings huphazards and sleep deprivation and also makes your life a little better and effective.

‌11) Whenever you feel sad and nostalgic go to people who make you forget your sadness, do things which give you solace such as a light walk around visinity, if you are  a writer write something out, if you are a latent singer sing something out loud, if you are an introvert  watch a funny video, if you are a reader read a piece of writing.Do anything which will help you out in distancing with the  negativity and despondense  however, make sure its something productive but not felonious and forbidden.

‌12)I know nothing is as  easy as it looks on the face of it,however you will do it little by little.If the efforts are taken in a right direction with a matured mindset nothing is far more supirior then your willpower.May you will be relieved with the depression eating you up, the uneasiness restricting your potential, and the dark shedows holding you back.

‌13) Towards the end, I would say
‌ “स्वस्थ रहो, मस्त रहो और व्यस्त रहो!!”

Be healthy, be cool, be busy!!

‌”Be healthy, Be cool, Be busy”

Hey Miss rosy silent….

Your initial years were quite vibrant

Then came that  atrocious phase.

Where you met a toxic trait.

 

You admired him the most

But he was a roasted toast

Never valued you the way you should be

And little by little you lost your innate bee

 

No cheers , no chattery

You became a low morale battery

Imagery, past and shit ran more.

You brain became a dark black hole.

 

Day by day you gathered guts

Rose like a hurricane

With a peaceful thud.

 

You gave a new birth to you

By you!

For you!

Then lined the whole world in a perfect queue.

 

Hey you stress  less and laugh a lot more.

Don’t you follow your past anymore

Peace come to those who thy seek.

A self proclaimed prisoner can never be released.

 

OH! My sweetheart

You are a lighting lamp.

Shine bright like a sun.

Be cheerful like a lamb.